Ive felt this before- being shut out when asking for transparency. When youre asked to give and then are not met with the same.
Ive also struggled with asking myself: what is it that im really feeling? Need for control or genuine discomfort? Is that discomfort something I can move through or is it something ive identified as a hard limit? Does that work within this particular dynamic?
I think we all need to continue to check in with our partners, with self, and have good people around us to make us think so we make healthier choices.
I always ask myself “ Is this somethig I NEED to feel safe in this or is it something I can work through without"?” because sometimes its a new need i’ve never encountered but it feel like nagging.
Ive felt this before- being shut out when asking for transparency. When youre asked to give and then are not met with the same.
Ive also struggled with asking myself: what is it that im really feeling? Need for control or genuine discomfort? Is that discomfort something I can move through or is it something ive identified as a hard limit? Does that work within this particular dynamic?
I think we all need to continue to check in with our partners, with self, and have good people around us to make us think so we make healthier choices.
I always ask myself “ Is this somethig I NEED to feel safe in this or is it something I can work through without"?” because sometimes its a new need i’ve never encountered but it feel like nagging.
I love your writings so much. Thanks for sharing them.
Thank you so much for reading and supporting them!