I resonated with this so much as a monogamish person (if i must pick a label). I find myself very much so open, but not open to the crash course 101-u got 90 days to be a perfect little poly girl. Like huhhhh slow doooowwwwn baby lmao.
Love this!! Cuz I’m not finna be waiting for you to get better adjusted to who I am. It really goes both ways. It’s okay if we don’t match in relationship beliefs as long as we don’t betray ourselves just to have someone or to feel like we belong. If it’s a mismatch, it is what it is.
Yeah i feel that. Idk i feel like if the person is genuine then it shouldnt matter if your allowing adjustments.
But having unrealistic expectations is where alot of ppl trip up at. Dont expect a monogamish person to be perfectly adapted or not allow them the same space to grow that you went through yourself.
BUT if this is a monogamous person who really dnt wanna be in that world like you said above and wants to attempt to change you back? Eh eh. Failed before u can start 🤣
U just gotta know what u can deal with and be plain about it from jump. That mismatch statement is a fact
I resonated with this so much as a monogamish person (if i must pick a label). I find myself very much so open, but not open to the crash course 101-u got 90 days to be a perfect little poly girl. Like huhhhh slow doooowwwwn baby lmao.
Love this!! Cuz I’m not finna be waiting for you to get better adjusted to who I am. It really goes both ways. It’s okay if we don’t match in relationship beliefs as long as we don’t betray ourselves just to have someone or to feel like we belong. If it’s a mismatch, it is what it is.
Yeah i feel that. Idk i feel like if the person is genuine then it shouldnt matter if your allowing adjustments.
But having unrealistic expectations is where alot of ppl trip up at. Dont expect a monogamish person to be perfectly adapted or not allow them the same space to grow that you went through yourself.
BUT if this is a monogamous person who really dnt wanna be in that world like you said above and wants to attempt to change you back? Eh eh. Failed before u can start 🤣
U just gotta know what u can deal with and be plain about it from jump. That mismatch statement is a fact