One thing I know for sure, if you're listed on someone's profile under relations/ D/s relations then there remains the link and it remain clickable. Your profile will show up as "user has either deactivated or blocked you".
I deactivated for about 3 days, came back and my profile looked like I had never left. Literally everything was still there, just the way I left it. All of my roles, fetish tags, writings, pics… and everything else I have there was the same.
I can speak for other men, but I do agree that we dont know where to find the middle. Most women like a guy with confidence and charming, but some guys dont really understand what those things are. And then other guys arer too shy and naive to even consider having conversations of such a nature. I think for sure we have come a long way in sexuality in the past few decades, but the we started so far apart I dont know if we can find that happy meeting ground. Guys , when a girl says no thanks, shes usually not saying "what im really saying is try harder and touch me inapppropiately." And the shy guys, when a girl stays back with just you while her friends head out to the dance floor its not because shes tired. Its all about respect people, and consent, nonconsent can be fun when its consented to. Just because you are bigger or stronger ,doesnt make you the boss, and people, learn to live with rejection. I see so many of those true crime shows where sonebody throws their entier life away because they were jealous. There is other people out there. And some people may never have experienced this, and in a very large number of people ive experienced it twice. Where the stars align, everything you say and think is clicking, you are finishing each others sentences, its that home run out of the park kind of love. And thats what brings me to 42 and still single. i found it when i was 25 and 36, easy enough to figure out it didnt work out, Things change and you either change toghether or you change apart, But because I know that holllywood love really does exsist now. I cant settle for less. And that includes sex, once youve had that kind of sex where things are just so natural and perfect , you cant go back to the boring vanillla, lets have sex with our socks on. I encourage you all to go out there and be your best selves, find your best partner, or partners,, personally I dont think we were meant for one person. But remember, not everyone you like is gonnna like you and not everyone who likes you you are gonnna like, so respect each others boundaries, communincate and listen to each other and actually do it. Dont let your ego get in the way of getting shot down, there are 8 billion people on this planet. And remember, if you 99 \ 100 say no, you are still getting laid. Just treaat people the way you are SUPPOSED to treat them, not how you want to be treated, how they do. We can do better.
I have mental health deactivated in the past, and nothing disappeared. Relationships, groups, etc. all there when I returned.
One thing I know for sure, if you're listed on someone's profile under relations/ D/s relations then there remains the link and it remain clickable. Your profile will show up as "user has either deactivated or blocked you".
Your original profile pic is still visible on that page as well
I deactivated for about 3 days, came back and my profile looked like I had never left. Literally everything was still there, just the way I left it. All of my roles, fetish tags, writings, pics… and everything else I have there was the same.
Same, I deactivated for months
I can speak for other men, but I do agree that we dont know where to find the middle. Most women like a guy with confidence and charming, but some guys dont really understand what those things are. And then other guys arer too shy and naive to even consider having conversations of such a nature. I think for sure we have come a long way in sexuality in the past few decades, but the we started so far apart I dont know if we can find that happy meeting ground. Guys , when a girl says no thanks, shes usually not saying "what im really saying is try harder and touch me inapppropiately." And the shy guys, when a girl stays back with just you while her friends head out to the dance floor its not because shes tired. Its all about respect people, and consent, nonconsent can be fun when its consented to. Just because you are bigger or stronger ,doesnt make you the boss, and people, learn to live with rejection. I see so many of those true crime shows where sonebody throws their entier life away because they were jealous. There is other people out there. And some people may never have experienced this, and in a very large number of people ive experienced it twice. Where the stars align, everything you say and think is clicking, you are finishing each others sentences, its that home run out of the park kind of love. And thats what brings me to 42 and still single. i found it when i was 25 and 36, easy enough to figure out it didnt work out, Things change and you either change toghether or you change apart, But because I know that holllywood love really does exsist now. I cant settle for less. And that includes sex, once youve had that kind of sex where things are just so natural and perfect , you cant go back to the boring vanillla, lets have sex with our socks on. I encourage you all to go out there and be your best selves, find your best partner, or partners,, personally I dont think we were meant for one person. But remember, not everyone you like is gonnna like you and not everyone who likes you you are gonnna like, so respect each others boundaries, communincate and listen to each other and actually do it. Dont let your ego get in the way of getting shot down, there are 8 billion people on this planet. And remember, if you 99 \ 100 say no, you are still getting laid. Just treaat people the way you are SUPPOSED to treat them, not how you want to be treated, how they do. We can do better.
I deactivated now and then activated a few minutes after, and nothing was gone 🙂
Happy to hear/ Thak you for confirming!