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After organizing WHAT The Fet to highlight policy gaps in FetLife's guidelines, my account was locked without explanation. Here's the documented…
Feb 21
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Captain Chaos
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Silence Is Not Neutral
How Communities Shape Power
Feb 19
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Captain Chaos
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Where Power Actually Lives
How Communities Shape Power
Feb 12
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Captain Chaos
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WTFet Is Next
And How to Stay Informed
Feb 6
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Captain Chaos
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How Communities Shape Power
How power actually operates in kink, BDSM, and swinger communities. A series on influence, silence, popularity, and collective responsibility.
Feb 5
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Captain Chaos
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December 2025
The Phoenix Year Summarized
My year of softness without surrendering sovereignty
Dec 11, 2025
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Captain Chaos
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October 2025
WTF Happened to The Titties and More
One Final NoTittyTuesday
Oct 23, 2025
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Captain Chaos
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5
When Silence Becomes a Contract
Some of the deepest fractures I have seen in relationships did not come from betrayal, cheating, or even lies.
Oct 9, 2025
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Teddi Rene'
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The Illusion of “No Rules”
We love the idea of freedom.
Oct 7, 2025
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Teddi Rene'
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Unwritten, But Always Enforced
Every space has rules. Even the ones they swear they don't.
Oct 2, 2025
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Teddi Rene'
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September 2025
WhatTheFet Update
The Last Titty Tuesday Until November
Sep 30, 2025
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Captain Chaos
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The Structure Isn’t the Problem
Monogamous and Monogamish: What You Might Be Missing
Sep 18, 2025
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Captain Chaos
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