From Organizer to Case Study

After organizing WHAT The Fet to highlight policy gaps in FetLife's guidelines, my account was locked without explanation. Here's the documented…

Feb 21 • Captain Chaos

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Silence Is Not Neutral

How Communities Shape Power

Feb 19 • Captain Chaos

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Where Power Actually Lives

How Communities Shape Power

Feb 12 • Captain Chaos

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WTFet Is Next

And How to Stay Informed

Feb 6 • Captain Chaos

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How Communities Shape Power

How power actually operates in kink, BDSM, and swinger communities. A series on influence, silence, popularity, and collective responsibility.

Feb 5 • Captain Chaos

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December 2025

The Phoenix Year Summarized

My year of softness without surrendering sovereignty

Dec 11, 2025 • Captain Chaos

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October 2025

WTF Happened to The Titties and More

One Final NoTittyTuesday

Oct 23, 2025 • Captain Chaos

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When Silence Becomes a Contract

Some of the deepest fractures I have seen in relationships did not come from betrayal, cheating, or even lies.

Oct 9, 2025 • Teddi Rene'

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The Illusion of “No Rules”

We love the idea of freedom.

Oct 7, 2025 • Teddi Rene'

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Unwritten, But Always Enforced

Every space has rules. Even the ones they swear they don't.

Oct 2, 2025 • Teddi Rene'

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September 2025

WhatTheFet Update

The Last Titty Tuesday Until November

Sep 30, 2025 • Captain Chaos

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The Structure Isn’t the Problem

Monogamous and Monogamish: What You Might Be Missing

Sep 18, 2025 • Captain Chaos

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